This entire ball dropping stuff is a big load of c**p. I just noticed, you're single- if you're looking for a guy, pick one who can actually communicate about important topics to your son but without replacing his biological father. A father who doesn't talk, isn't a father at all. I'm 17, I've still got a lot to learn about parenting but I try my best. My father never spoke to me about such things and I've ended up thinking "Maybe he doesn't want to talk to me anymore". He really does need to learn about such things from his father. (Obviously not how the fathers sex went last night or something along those lines) A father should guide his son through the right path of life, without this communication going on - It's not going to happen unless your son is actually intelligent. A lot of men can be stubborn, and reluctant to talk about certain things but a son and father need a bond, they need such a strong bond they can talk about anything reasonable. It's great you are trying to support your son, I admire that. I was taught about STI's but never about testicles dropping.
Most of the stuff he'll learn would be "facts". but the teachers, well teachers in England do not really talk about their sexual experiences as a kid. This is unlikely, but it can happen) I think try make your sons father open up about sex and puberty with male genitals for the benefit of your son in general and his learning else get your son extra sex education lessons in school (Although it's best heard from his father) You may think that he'll learn it all in standard schooling, that's not correct. When your son grows up, he may think "Ah what the hell, she's a female, she doesn't have experience about puberty with penises" and may totally disagree with what you say (Because you don't have a penis. It is obvious that you do not know enough to tell your son everything, so you came on here to find more information about certain topics. Now I'm rather addicted, but I understand enough not to get some random chick laid. I clocked onto his behavior, and when I had a girlfriend who would have sex, I followed his paths. but what could he say when he wanted it every other night. My dad, didn't want to talk to me about sex as such. but your son may benefit from someone who can easily and openly talk about sex.
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